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For Valentine’s Day, I’d like to do something different – because today’s outfit isn’t about a theme. It’s about a person. I first met Jason at a hole-in-the-wall Korean place, where we sipped bori-cha, gingerly offered each other bites of japchae and soondubu, and exchanged brief snippets of our career and life histories. I had
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It was bound to happen eventually, but today was the first day where I couldn’t pull together an outfit for other people. It’s not that I’m doing this challenge solely for other people; it’s more that I’ve been focused on expanding my comfort zone, and sharing what I’m wearing is a large part of that
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It’s the second weekend – and the second double fashion feature! Both Saturday and Sunday’s themes pushed me to get creative with interpretation, giving me lots of room to play with different styles before settling on my final outfits. What’s most interesting about these two themes, though, is how they both engage anxieties and anticipation
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WOW! I didn’t even realize how fast this month has gone, but I’m officially on my tenth day of dressing however the Internet tells me to! Honestly, it’s been a busy month even without the challenge (February is terrible for anybody attending or working in schools), but I’m glad I’ve committed to doing this. Having
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“When I choose to see the good side of things, I’m not being naive. It is strategic and necessary. It’s how I’ve learned to survive through everything.” Waymond Wang, Everything Everywhere All at Once (2022) Waymond Wang, as my friend Crystal would put it, has big loser energy. At the beginning of Everything Everywhere All
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I’m lucky to live in a place 10 minutes away from both beautiful shorelines and top-notch hiking trails: in the grind of my daily work, where I’m often caught up planning out my students’ futures, the sights around me remind me to slow down and appreciate all the vibrant life around me right now. Trees
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And just like that, we’re officially done with the first week of the February Fashion Challenge! Whoo! One of the questions I had when I was initially planning this month was how I’d keep my outfits work-appropriate. My company doesn’t demand that we show up in full suits every day, but since we work with
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“Don’t wear that jacket – only fags would wear something like that.” Years later and I still chafe at those words from my father. Even after I’ve left home, graduated college, and established myself as a professional and an adult, they take me back to 15, when I buried myself in oversized hoodies and tried


